L.O.V.E.

Just got a phone call about an hour ago, friend called me and complain about her boyfriend (they just started about 1 month ago and start complaining)

Few months back, another friend complain to me about her boyfriend as well...(they been together for 3 years plus and through out the first year I know her, she has been complaining. still together though)

About a year ago, friend called me in the middle of the night and cry because she been dump~ (her relationship didn't last long but now she got a new one)

You guys must be thinking, am I Hitch or Love professor?? Let me tell you, I am not..I got not much experience on love either, just 2 (puppy love) and already nearly 4 years that I didn't involve in any relationship...even I ask myself, why did they call me?? (it's certainly not an affair!!!)

Beside all this not so smoothly relationship, there is smooth relationship happening around me as well, like one of my friend..know this girl who elder then him 2 years, it is his first love( I guess) and they are still together until now (it has been about 1 year plus)

One of the most successful relationship is from my mom's friend's daughter..she and her boyfriend started since form 3 and until now, about 15 years they are still together and getting marry soon..

my cousin brother, know his wife during high school but started few years later when they met again..after that, they both can't meet each other for few years,one at England and one at Malaysia and they got married 2 years ago~

another good example is my friend, since form 4 he know this girl but only as close friend until finish spm..they started after that, and never seen them as happy as before until now

all these love problem that happening around me, do affect my view towards love...it makes me afraid to fall in love (although I did for few times, but it just didn't turn out well), at the same time, I can't wait to fall in love again...

as I don't want my teenage life just end like that, man I have 2 years more to officially be an adult...is my teenage life is all about study and being single??

people having relationship will tell me stay single..you will be more happy (true)
single people will tell me, lets get a girlfriend..we are so f*cked up (true also)

for god sake, I never celebrate valentine or Christmas or even my birthday with my love one..wonder when will it happen?? hmmmmm

so what is LOVE??

according to wikipidea..

Love is a constellation of emotion and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness. Romantic love is seen as an ineffable feeling of intense attraction shared in passionate or intimate attraction and intimate interpersonal and sexual relationships. Though often linked to personal relations, love is often given a broader signifition, a love of humanity, of nature, with life itself, or a oneness with the Universe, a universal love or karma.

types of love

1. erotic love : is an aesthetic focus on sexual desire, especially the feelings of anticipation of sexual activity.

2. platonic love : in its modern popular sense is a non-sexual affectionate relationship, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise

3. familial love : is a type affinity or natural affection felt between members of a group bound by common ancestry or blood ties.

4. puppy love : an informal term for feelings of love, particularly between young people during adolenses, so-called for its resemblance to the adoring, worshipful affection that may be felt by a puppy.

5. romantic love : a general term referring to the connection between "love" and the general idea of "romance", according to more traditional usages of the terms.

I think that love seriously need commitment from both side, there is no measurement on how much you ready to give and how much you ready to receive. Many people (those who are in relationship now) will definitely say that I don't understand anything about love. Maybe I really don't know much, but that is the basic thing that a relationship need and it is difficult to have that in a relationship. There will always be not enough~

love will happen when the right time and right person appear, my previous experience is just so not right, either too early or too late..haha!!

love is also will happen depends on the way you approach,I have tried straight forward and waiting, both also not working, probably wrong method on wrong person...haha

like what Rascal Flatts said :" I've been waiting all my life to find you..." (is a song, nice song!!!)

how come my life can be like those romantic drama,everything happen coincidently~

contract relationship and finally get married(too bad I am not a celebrity)

enemy become lover....

meet in library while both want the same book(err..I don't borrow book from library)

studying together in same college..(err..hopeless college)

living in same town...

first sight??

damn!!! those lovely drama just driving me crazy!!!!


hey, I think it is all about Karma..what have I done?? hmmmm
if it is about Karma, then what about those who dumped someone just to get with the new one?? or those change partner like changing clothes...do they get the Karma thingy as well??

wow!!! LOVE IS SO COMPLICATED!!!!!!

I will not fully understand it until the end of my life...that is for sure..


ps: for those who has been mentioned by me up there..please forgive me. (be proud, because you guys inspired me to blog about love) haha!!!